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	<title>Comments on: Pink Femme, Red Femme: Notes on Insecurity</title>
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		<title>By: TZ</title>
		<link>http://blog.tarynzhang.com/2010/05/pink-femme-red-femme-notes-on-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-85</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 01:04:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kobu! I very much enjoy designing and watching a 2-D pencil sketch become a purse that I carry around! That was my contention to the &quot;naysayers&quot; actually: &quot;But it makes me happy!&quot; The reply? &quot;Watching TV makes me happy. Doesn&#039;t mean I should become a couch potato. Tennis makes your father happy. You don&#039;t see him aspiring to go pro.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thank you for your encouragement. It means a lot to me. =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kobu! I very much enjoy designing and watching a 2-D pencil sketch become a purse that I carry around! That was my contention to the &#8220;naysayers&#8221; actually: &#8220;But it makes me happy!&#8221; The reply? &#8220;Watching TV makes me happy. Doesn&#39;t mean I should become a couch potato. Tennis makes your father happy. You don&#39;t see him aspiring to go pro.&#8221; </p>
<p>Thank you for your encouragement. It means a lot to me. =)</p>
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		<title>By: kobukson</title>
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		<dc:creator>kobukson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2010 12:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;See, lately people whose opinions matter to me called Taryn Zhang my “pet project.” It’s not a “pet project.” It’s my aspiration. People whose support I desperately need told me that I’m dreaming too big. This time, I’m in way over my head. I need to ”consider the opportunity cost” here. They reminded me, because, you know, I wasn’t fully aware of it before, thank you very much, that I’m not professionally trained to do this; I’m neither schooled to be a designer nor schooled to be a businesswoman; heck, I’ve never even been all that well-dressed or fashionable. What makes me think I can be a fashion designer? Plus, I have no pulse for marketing or PR. I don’t have the business acumen to turn a profit. I have never been good at sales. Ever. Not even in elementary school Christmas wrapping paper and candy fundraisers. I probably couldn’t sell heat to eskimos if I tried. And above all, I’m not extraordinary. How will I ever stand out in such a diluted industry without being extraordinary?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Rest assured that I have thoughtfully considered all these points before anybody had to express them to me. What kept me going before? Some amazing cocktail of hope, zeal, excess energy, and naivete. When all four began to wane a bit from encountering difficulty after difficulty, instead of cheering me on, instead of yelling at me to dig deeper, I received, “hmm, maybe you should just quit while you’re ahead.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Well, are you having fun doing what you&#039;re doing???&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m checking out your blog for the first time. I&#039;ll admit I&#039;m impressed by all this. You have a nice little bit of enterprise going on here. I admire a person who is working hard to transform their dream from imagination to reality.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Each step forward feels like a leap of faith. Don&#039;t worry about being naive or inexperienced. Rachel Madow said that when she first started out in radio as a talk show host, she didn&#039;t know anything. In her own naivete, she did different things that experienced people didn&#039;t consider normal and that made her special and set her apart from the crowd. You do what you can as best as humanly possible and the rest you leave in the hands of Providence.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nevermind the naysayers. They don&#039;t understand your vision. Or they are jealous. Like crabs trying to pull down the one crab that&#039;s trying to make it outta the bucket. It&#039;s hard to be an eagle when you&#039;re surrounded by a bunch of turkeys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>See, lately people whose opinions matter to me called Taryn Zhang my “pet project.” It’s not a “pet project.” It’s my aspiration. People whose support I desperately need told me that I’m dreaming too big. This time, I’m in way over my head. I need to ”consider the opportunity cost” here. They reminded me, because, you know, I wasn’t fully aware of it before, thank you very much, that I’m not professionally trained to do this; I’m neither schooled to be a designer nor schooled to be a businesswoman; heck, I’ve never even been all that well-dressed or fashionable. What makes me think I can be a fashion designer? Plus, I have no pulse for marketing or PR. I don’t have the business acumen to turn a profit. I have never been good at sales. Ever. Not even in elementary school Christmas wrapping paper and candy fundraisers. I probably couldn’t sell heat to eskimos if I tried. And above all, I’m not extraordinary. How will I ever stand out in such a diluted industry without being extraordinary?</p>
<p>Rest assured that I have thoughtfully considered all these points before anybody had to express them to me. What kept me going before? Some amazing cocktail of hope, zeal, excess energy, and naivete. When all four began to wane a bit from encountering difficulty after difficulty, instead of cheering me on, instead of yelling at me to dig deeper, I received, “hmm, maybe you should just quit while you’re ahead.”</i></p>
<p>Well, are you having fun doing what you&#39;re doing???</p>
<p>I&#39;m checking out your blog for the first time. I&#39;ll admit I&#39;m impressed by all this. You have a nice little bit of enterprise going on here. I admire a person who is working hard to transform their dream from imagination to reality.</p>
<p>Each step forward feels like a leap of faith. Don&#39;t worry about being naive or inexperienced. Rachel Madow said that when she first started out in radio as a talk show host, she didn&#39;t know anything. In her own naivete, she did different things that experienced people didn&#39;t consider normal and that made her special and set her apart from the crowd. You do what you can as best as humanly possible and the rest you leave in the hands of Providence.</p>
<p>Nevermind the naysayers. They don&#39;t understand your vision. Or they are jealous. Like crabs trying to pull down the one crab that&#39;s trying to make it outta the bucket. It&#39;s hard to be an eagle when you&#39;re surrounded by a bunch of turkeys.</p>
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		<title>By: AppleSidra</title>
		<link>http://blog.tarynzhang.com/2010/05/pink-femme-red-femme-notes-on-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-70</link>
		<dc:creator>AppleSidra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 19:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:: lots of hugs via cyperspace!! :: I&#039;ve read a lot on the business path that Kate Spade the company took and yes, it is definitely my aspiration. THANK YOU, truly, for your faith. I just hope I don&#039;t let you down. Doh! Was that &quot;pink femme&quot; mentality again?!? Darn. Red femme, red femme, come on!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>:: lots of hugs via cyperspace!! :: I&#39;ve read a lot on the business path that Kate Spade the company took and yes, it is definitely my aspiration. THANK YOU, truly, for your faith. I just hope I don&#39;t let you down. Doh! Was that &#8220;pink femme&#8221; mentality again?!? Darn. Red femme, red femme, come on!</p>
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		<title>By: emmayamada</title>
		<link>http://blog.tarynzhang.com/2010/05/pink-femme-red-femme-notes-on-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-69</link>
		<dc:creator>emmayamada</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 08:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a feeling that you will be the next Kate Spade ! I have allot of faith in you. I will be excited when the handbags are available for purchase !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a feeling that you will be the next Kate Spade ! I have allot of faith in you. I will be excited when the handbags are available for purchase !</p>
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		<title>By: Taryn Z</title>
		<link>http://blog.tarynzhang.com/2010/05/pink-femme-red-femme-notes-on-insecurity/comment-page-1/#comment-68</link>
		<dc:creator>Taryn Z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 07:56:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe objectively every woman looks good in red lipstick. We just think we don&#039;t. I gotta say, I&#039;m liking this &quot;Wine with Everything&quot; color!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe objectively every woman looks good in red lipstick. We just think we don&#39;t. I gotta say, I&#39;m liking this &#8220;Wine with Everything&#8221; color!</p>
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